| The Death of a Loved One |
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Losing a loved one hurts. Paying tribute to the life of the loved one generally includes a public or private service of some type. The grieving
beginning immediately after death leads to a reconstructed life and
a return to living, no matter how shattering the death is for the bereaved. |
| Types of Services |
| There are three basic kinds of religious services: the memorial service, the funeral, and the committal service. |
| Eulogy |
| If a eulogy is desired, a meeting with the family prior
to the service is required for obtaining necessary details. No honorarium - only traveling expenses required. |
| Memorial Service |
| A memorial service usually takes place after the loved one has been buried or cremated. It can take place at a convenient time to gather the family. A church or chapel is a normal setting, but any appropriate site can be used, such as a public hall, a private home or an outdoor setting pays tribute to the life of the loved one. Together kin, friends, and acquaintances gather to remember and talk about a person’s life and experiences. This ritual is offered in a universal spiritual context. |
| Funeral Service |
| This is the traditional
service. The body of the loved one is usually present. The service may take place in a church, chapel, lodge, union hall, or even a private residence. Readings, music, and a eulogy for the deceased are used to provide a meaningful spiritual content. |
| Committal Service |
| Usually takes place at the site of burial of the body or the cremation remains. This service can be the sole service and is more brief than either the memorial or funeral service. Readings and ritual provide meaning for the family and friends. |
| The Services |
Each of these services is done as a tribute to the life lived by the departed loved one. Together, we select prayers, readings, music and rituals. Spirituality and a universal context are offered. |
| Honorarium |
| A minister’s (officiant’s) honorarium is applicable for a memorial or funeral service. |
